Slate's "Care and Feeding" is a parenting advice column that addresses various questions and concerns related to raising children. It offers guidance on issues such as child behavior, nutrition, education, and family dynamics. The column aims to help parents navigate the challenges of child-rearing with expert advice and a supportive community.
The teen's eating habits have changed significantly, as she has reduced her food intake considerably. She used to eat three full meals a day along with a couple of snacks, but now she only has a few apple slices for breakfast and a tiny portion of dinner. Additionally, she rarely eats snacks and has not been buying school lunches lately.
The columnist advises gently confronting the daughter about her eating habits and search history, asking her why she feels the need to lose weight. They suggest letting her know it's okay to want to be healthy, but not necessary to skip meals or count calories. The columnist recommends encouraging a balanced diet, exercise, and involving her in meal planning. They also propose discussing the dangers of restrictive diets, promoting body positivity, and considering therapy if needed.